Nicky Tate

»•» Hi, I’m Nicky! «•«

(Re)parenting Consultant
Former Behavior Special Educator
inquiry@reparentingnick.xyz

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Demand Avoidance Workshops

upcoming:
August 17th 8/17 on Consumer Autonomy

  • How to align your actions w/ your values (sustainably)
  • Remove black and white thinking from your consumption habits
  • How to create a mutual aid budget
  • ADHD friendly budgeting spreadsheet

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Demand Avoidance Peer Group

1st Mondays 5:30-7:00pm PST/8:30-10:00 EST

upcoming:
August 3rd 8/3, Semptember 7th 9/7, October 5th 10/5.

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Since summer 2024, I've consulted virtually with families to create transition routines, screen routines, chore routines, and teach parents the emotional regulation tools we use in the classroom to help with big behaviors at home. In fall 2025 I expanded to supporting PDA and neurodivergent adults who would benefit from the same help and skills education under a reparenting lens.
My special sauce is social emotional learning with PDA (demand avoidance)/ODD and ADHD kiddos to bring them out of flight/fight/freeze mode. I do NOT do ABA - my approach combines humanist and behavior theory to focus on nervous system regulation, conflict repair, and functional skills.

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